
Mismatch: what is it?
For the relationship to be satisfying, the parties must be matched. Almost every feature is liked by some people and disliked by others. Take, for example, a powerfully built guy. For one woman, this fat man will be repulsive; for another, he will be the personification of male strength. For one guy, a super well-groomed woman will be very attractive. Another may perceive her as empty, focused only on external aspects. Even though some look at the thief as a degenerate, others admire his "resourcefulness". In addition, there is the intensity of a given feature or – if you prefer – of the interpretation. The same person will be thrifty for some and stingy for others. ... Read More